something I learned today #003

this will be a short one, I guess! 😹
so, today I learned that you are the one who have the dominant role to choose whether you want to be happy or sad throughout the day. Although there's a lot of people that will make you sad, eventually you are the one who can decide whether to be sad or totally cool bout it!

I learned that people will break our heart multiples time without even acknowledging it! Sometimes they don't think that what they did actually makes us sad.. It's normal for human to feel sad if someone said something bad to you and such. We're human beings with emotions for a reason!..

I've read in a book, and the author wrote about a Quran's verse, "WITH HARDSHIP COMES EASE". If we look at these closely, it doesn't say after hardship comes ease, but it says, with hardship comes ease! It means that, there's always something good in all the hardships that we had gone through..

for example, if someone makes you sad about something. It actually makes you sad but then, it shows to you who your true friends were.. Who stayed with you when you are down and who left you when you're at your lowest! All the hardships also makes you who you are today. How can we be ourselves if it is not because of the hardships that we had gone through. All those experience living in hell, thought us something. To be more resilience, more independent and also smarter!

Humans makes mistakes and humans can and will break their promises..  Don't be sad about it! No one is perfect. As I said just now, we are the one who can choose whether to be happy or sad in our lives.. Don't let someone makes your day feels like a burden holding you down. Make yourself happy again by doing something that makes you happy! Whatever it is, take your time to do something that actually makes you happy once in a while. We are not robots who don't have any emotions. We are ordinary human beings who are emotional most of the times and will always try to win in every case. But by winning, does that makes you happy? and also makes other people sad? Does winning outweight friendship and relationships? You don't have to always win.. Whats important is that all the people are happy..

Remember that you are the one who can choose whether to be happy or sad about your life. Don't let anyone bring you down! Choose to be happy as life are short! Make time for your loved ones and most importantly yourself!

xoxo,
yours truly 💚

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