Something I learned today #006
Hi guys!!
So, what did I learned for the past few days??? 🤔🤔
Hmm 🤗🤗
Well, there's a lot of things actually.
The first one is : always remember thay your family members will always love u even if they didn't tell you.
So, I went back home this weekend. Mainly for my dental appointment. Then, my dad's birthday celebration and also to drop my dad at the airport.. so, when my sister and I arrived home. I immediately hugged my mom and dad, little brother and also my bro ( salam je la for this guy 😂😂) .. so, during dinner time. My lil bro was very happy.. like he kept laughing at all the things we talked, he kept asking questions and riddles. He ate a lot. Usually he is the type of kid who always play with his phone and games. But not on that night. So, we asked our parents.. why is he soo excited?? Then, they said that he's excited cause finally both of u were here..the last time we went back was like 2/3 weeks ago, I guess. Although I always call like 2/3 times in a week. He never told me he missed me (read: my sister and I 😂).. so, after seeing how excited he was when everyone is at home. I guess that actions really speak louder than words does.. so, always remember that there are still at least a person who wants you here and loves you unconditionally. And they are called your family.. ohana 💓
The 2nd thing I learned: try to celebrate each of your family member's birthday
My family will celebrate each and everyone's birthday in the family. Most of the surprises and plans were made by my sister and me. But, we will always include everyone in the celebration 🎈🎈 so, although my dad's birthday is on the 24th of december. But, we need to celebrate it super early cause my sister and I will be busy until early January.. cause I got exams in like 2 weekd from now and her exams starts after mine finishes. So, we will not be back home. But, it will not be an excuse for not celebrating it.. so, we celebrated it early! We bought a necktie, a new travel shirt and also an adidas running cloth. Although it was expensive, but what the heck! Its just once in a year.. don't be stingy when its about buying presents for your family members especially your parents 💓 all the money that you used is basically theirs.. so, you are actually using their money and not yours! I was really happy when he opened his presents and he really appreciated it . He even brought the new shirts and nectkie with him to his bussiness trip right now. That place is -3°c and he still brought the clothes we bought for him. I'm touched!!
The third thing I learned: don't ask people to do it, you just do it!
So, basically i'm a pre-u student rn. So, I lived in a room with three other roommates. Well, I am the only one from a boarding school whereas the rest of them are from secondary school. I'm not trying to be bias or stereotyping bout sbp or secondary school student okay. Thats not the main point! What I wanna say here is that. If your room is dirty, just take the broom and sweep it. You don't need to ask them to do it if you know that they won't.. this actually really helps me to reduce my anger towards them. Cause besides from waiting for them to clean the room. I could just sweep it. Don't think bout fair and such things rn cause u know that they will not do it! Just think that this is your room. So, although they did not care bout the room's condition. But you do!! And you live here too. So, just do the work if you know that you are the only one that will do it.. be the responsible and clean person.. the same goes for all the other chores anywhere. If you can do it. Just do it. It will saves your time and also your frustrations.. 🤗🤗💓
Thats all.
Yours truly 💋
So, what did I learned for the past few days??? 🤔🤔
Hmm 🤗🤗
Well, there's a lot of things actually.
The first one is : always remember thay your family members will always love u even if they didn't tell you.
So, I went back home this weekend. Mainly for my dental appointment. Then, my dad's birthday celebration and also to drop my dad at the airport.. so, when my sister and I arrived home. I immediately hugged my mom and dad, little brother and also my bro ( salam je la for this guy 😂😂) .. so, during dinner time. My lil bro was very happy.. like he kept laughing at all the things we talked, he kept asking questions and riddles. He ate a lot. Usually he is the type of kid who always play with his phone and games. But not on that night. So, we asked our parents.. why is he soo excited?? Then, they said that he's excited cause finally both of u were here..the last time we went back was like 2/3 weeks ago, I guess. Although I always call like 2/3 times in a week. He never told me he missed me (read: my sister and I 😂).. so, after seeing how excited he was when everyone is at home. I guess that actions really speak louder than words does.. so, always remember that there are still at least a person who wants you here and loves you unconditionally. And they are called your family.. ohana 💓
The 2nd thing I learned: try to celebrate each of your family member's birthday
My family will celebrate each and everyone's birthday in the family. Most of the surprises and plans were made by my sister and me. But, we will always include everyone in the celebration 🎈🎈 so, although my dad's birthday is on the 24th of december. But, we need to celebrate it super early cause my sister and I will be busy until early January.. cause I got exams in like 2 weekd from now and her exams starts after mine finishes. So, we will not be back home. But, it will not be an excuse for not celebrating it.. so, we celebrated it early! We bought a necktie, a new travel shirt and also an adidas running cloth. Although it was expensive, but what the heck! Its just once in a year.. don't be stingy when its about buying presents for your family members especially your parents 💓 all the money that you used is basically theirs.. so, you are actually using their money and not yours! I was really happy when he opened his presents and he really appreciated it . He even brought the new shirts and nectkie with him to his bussiness trip right now. That place is -3°c and he still brought the clothes we bought for him. I'm touched!!
The third thing I learned: don't ask people to do it, you just do it!
So, basically i'm a pre-u student rn. So, I lived in a room with three other roommates. Well, I am the only one from a boarding school whereas the rest of them are from secondary school. I'm not trying to be bias or stereotyping bout sbp or secondary school student okay. Thats not the main point! What I wanna say here is that. If your room is dirty, just take the broom and sweep it. You don't need to ask them to do it if you know that they won't.. this actually really helps me to reduce my anger towards them. Cause besides from waiting for them to clean the room. I could just sweep it. Don't think bout fair and such things rn cause u know that they will not do it! Just think that this is your room. So, although they did not care bout the room's condition. But you do!! And you live here too. So, just do the work if you know that you are the only one that will do it.. be the responsible and clean person.. the same goes for all the other chores anywhere. If you can do it. Just do it. It will saves your time and also your frustrations.. 🤗🤗💓
Thats all.
Yours truly 💋
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