ITS TIME TO PONDER ABOUT THE FUTURE
Hey.
We're in our 20s already. Lolz.. 😂
How time really pass by and suddenly you're living on your own, driving yourself around by your own, get to buy all the things you wanted with your own money, thinking about the free time to plan to get the ticket back to your hometown.
And yeah, you're also on the verge of people asking, "dah berpunya ke?" 😅😅
Well, to some people, it may be bothersome. Like why do your aunt/uncle need to ask those questions,
well because they care for you.
So, just answer.. If you already have someone, just say YES. If not, then NO.
Why bother getting irritated and angry for 🙅🙅
They're just asking out of curiosity kann..
Even now, my parents had been asking if I'm meeting someone right now..
And tbh, I've moved on from all the crushes/day dreaming 😂😂
I've watched a story before, and it quite teached me something unexpectedly.
It teaches me that, coupling now during your study years may be fun, but are you sure your partner's goals is to get married?
Are you sure he can take care of you when he's busy with his career, when he suddenly met a really nice coworker. Can you be 100% sure that he has matured enough to only take care of you and only you?
For me, guys will always be a big baby, no matter how old they are..
Even girls sometimes act like babies with their loved ones, so, we're pratically the same thing..
But men.. To trust them with all your heart, it may be quite hard. IDK..
My mom had once told me (and repeatedly as well), she asked me to find a man during my study life in university.
She said its better that you know him well, how his friends are, how he manages his stress and soo on.
Tbh, I agree. Cause sometimes we tend to pretend to be the perfect people in front of our loved ones,, but not in real life.
And tbh, I've been crushing on a guy since a year/2 years ago (hmm) and it has been the longest crush ever..
Well, why did I moved on huh? 🙈
I didn't really moved on tbh..
Its just that, I think its time to focus on studying, like really really focus on that and not think of him too much.
Although it does not really bother me,, but I just don't want him to be the center of my attention sometimes.
I just wanna have fun throughout my study life with my friends and not only care about him..
Life is short, don't just center your attention on a person and neglect the other people..
Sometimes, the people you like are not meant for you
Look out to other people also who made time and sacrifice a lot for you
In short, I think I'll just follow the flow until I met the one..
Maybe during study life, maybe during working life. IDK,
But what I know is, God had made a plan, a really nice plan,
And I'm gonna follow it through 🌝🌝
Always trust His plans,, it's the nicest plan ever made for you
Yours truly 💋
We're in our 20s already. Lolz.. 😂
How time really pass by and suddenly you're living on your own, driving yourself around by your own, get to buy all the things you wanted with your own money, thinking about the free time to plan to get the ticket back to your hometown.
And yeah, you're also on the verge of people asking, "dah berpunya ke?" 😅😅
Well, to some people, it may be bothersome. Like why do your aunt/uncle need to ask those questions,
well because they care for you.
So, just answer.. If you already have someone, just say YES. If not, then NO.
Why bother getting irritated and angry for 🙅🙅
They're just asking out of curiosity kann..
Even now, my parents had been asking if I'm meeting someone right now..
And tbh, I've moved on from all the crushes/day dreaming 😂😂
I've watched a story before, and it quite teached me something unexpectedly.
It teaches me that, coupling now during your study years may be fun, but are you sure your partner's goals is to get married?
Are you sure he can take care of you when he's busy with his career, when he suddenly met a really nice coworker. Can you be 100% sure that he has matured enough to only take care of you and only you?
For me, guys will always be a big baby, no matter how old they are..
Even girls sometimes act like babies with their loved ones, so, we're pratically the same thing..
But men.. To trust them with all your heart, it may be quite hard. IDK..
My mom had once told me (and repeatedly as well), she asked me to find a man during my study life in university.
She said its better that you know him well, how his friends are, how he manages his stress and soo on.
Tbh, I agree. Cause sometimes we tend to pretend to be the perfect people in front of our loved ones,, but not in real life.
And tbh, I've been crushing on a guy since a year/2 years ago (hmm) and it has been the longest crush ever..
Well, why did I moved on huh? 🙈
I didn't really moved on tbh..
Its just that, I think its time to focus on studying, like really really focus on that and not think of him too much.
Although it does not really bother me,, but I just don't want him to be the center of my attention sometimes.
I just wanna have fun throughout my study life with my friends and not only care about him..
Life is short, don't just center your attention on a person and neglect the other people..
Sometimes, the people you like are not meant for you
Look out to other people also who made time and sacrifice a lot for you
In short, I think I'll just follow the flow until I met the one..
Maybe during study life, maybe during working life. IDK,
But what I know is, God had made a plan, a really nice plan,
And I'm gonna follow it through 🌝🌝
Always trust His plans,, it's the nicest plan ever made for you
Yours truly 💋
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